BitterGrey is an ABDL icon. Somewhere around August 1995 “BitterGrey’s Den” went live. Now found at “understanding.infantilism.org“, the site pioneered the study and description of ABDL from an empirical perspective. BitterGrey ran surveys with a clear scientific focus- He collected lots of fairly basic but quantifiable information, clearly stated the limitations of his data, and reported his findings. By doing so, he created the first meaningful study of our community. A couple of decades later BitterGrey’s site is still the single best place to start if you want to understand the ABDL world.